April 2025 – Andy Wells
The “Chad” Trap: How Overcompensating Masculinity Sabotaged My Dating Success April 26, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) Sex & Dating
Yes, You Can Still Cold Approach in 2026 (and 2035, and 2075…)
Nov 21, 2025 · I get this question all the time: “Andy, can you still cold approach in 2026?” Guys say it like there’s an expiry date on saying hi to a woman. Yes, you can still walk up to a girl in …
10 Things I’m Grateful For in YOU (Happy Thanksgiving!)
5 days ago · 10 Things I’m Grateful For in YOU (Happy Thanksgiving!) November 27, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) Today’s Thanksgiving for a lot of you, and even though we don’t …
Autistic or Awkward? How to Date Without Masking Who You Are
Nov 15, 2025 · If you’re an autistic guy, you’ve probably learned to hide who you are when it comes to dating. You’ve been told you’re too blunt, too quiet, too intense, too weird. So you …
When I had Unrealistic Standards, I Didn’t Get Laid [Storytime with ...
Exactly like Good Looking Loser did in his early 20’s. I’m a fucking retard for repeating the same pattern, given I’d already read all his articles about lowering your standards. Guess we have to …
I Don’t Teach the ABCs, I Teach You Poetry (Sex/Dating)
5 days ago · This Isn’t a Spelling Class — It’s a Bravery Class I’m not here to teach you the ABCs of dating. I’m here to teach you: self-respect courage resilience honesty self-love compassion …
Kill Your Inner Loser
Hey, I’m Andy. I went from depressed and suicidal to living a life of abundance & joy. I overcame depression, lost 77lbs, learned to approach women, explored a bunch of amazing 3somes & …
He Dated 5 Girls in 2 Weeks — By Finally Being HONEST!
November 17, 2025 Andy (Kill Your Inner Loser) When this client first joined coaching, he’d only approached eight women in his entire life. He was nervous, overthinking everything, and …
Anger Toward Women Is Almost Always Fear in Disguise
6 days ago · A lot of guys email me saying they feel frustrated, resentful, or even angry at women. They’re tired. They’re putting themselves out there. They’re getting rejected. And after a while, …
Why spending $200 on this one thing is the best investment you’ll …
Most guys don’t hesitate to blow $200 on: a night out they barely remember the next day drinks to try to numb the pain of a mediocre life Uber rides to nowhere important porn subscriptions …